Do you want to learn how to sweet talk girls? In this article I am going to talk to you a little bit about what to say to girls.

Learning how to sweet talk girls can be something that is pretty frustrating if you are not a guy who is glib and at ease with yourself.  You may have a constant case of “foot in mouth” disease and always find the wrong thing to say at the wrong time.

I understand that certain things are not going to work with every girl and you should too. There really are no two girls that are alike but most girls want the same thing. Most girls want some form of love and attention. If you can give them these things or at least the feeling of these things they will be melting like putty in your hands. Let’s now go on to talk about what to say to girls.

Many people are going to tell you that talking to women is complex.  They want to make some coplex quadratic equation out of something that is inherently simple, to make themselves seem superior.  But it is not.  Sweet talking girls is not that complicated. Once you learn a few simple things you are going to be able to talk to any girl and say the things that she wants to hear.

The first thing that you need to do when you are talking to a girl is to find out what her likes and dislikes are. You don’t have to get anything real specific but you can usually tell pretty soon if she is in it for a long-term relationship, friendship or a short dating period etc. All you have to do is find out what she wants and then talk yourself up in those areas.

For instance, if a girl is interested in a guy that is exciting and adventurous you could tell her about all of the fun things that you have done and then invite her on an outing with you or you and some friends. Feel her out a little bit and find out how interested she is before you ask her on a one on one date.

If a girl is interested in a long-term relationship you may want to talk about commitment that you have to… pretty much anything. You can say you’ve had you dog, car or friend or x amount of years and it will be a check mark in the good pile because she thinks that you are steady and stable.

There are a lot of different factors that women use to weed out guys and the worst thing that you could possibly do would be to try to say some corny, cheesy line. You need to be genuine and tell her things that are true and that are believable. You shouldn’t tell her things like “Baby you’re so fine I would fly you to the moon.” That may work on some very desperate girls but anyone else is just going to laugh in your face.

Being on a date with a girl can give you a little more give and take. If you are in a romantic setting it is much more likely she is going to be receptive of sweet things that you have to say.

You should pay close attention to her and notice things that you truly like about her. Does she have a cute giggle? Does she take time and care styling her hair? Does have a nice rack. Does she say something constantly that you think is cute? It is important you pick out something endearing to focus on and compliment her on it.  As I hope you notice from the strikeout, this should not be a physical attribute generally.  If it is you need to phrase it in a way that compliments her.  Don’t compliment her on having a “hot body“.  Tell her she looks amazing in what she is wearing and ask her questions about her workout routine is she seems very physically fit.

If you notice there is something that she is insecure about you should give it a positive spin and tell her that you find it attractive or cute so that she will be more comfortable with you.  It is all about talking about the her good points that you notice, but it is important that they be things she has control over.  Even something like “you have nice eyes”  isn’t as good as telling her that her clothing or makeup MAKES her eyes eyes stand out.

Now you know a little bit more about how to sweet talk girls. You will be able to get a much better response from women.

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