The way
you VIEW an interaction with a woman has a DIRECT impact
on your long-term success.
For instance, imagine you just grabbed a girl’s number.
Would you think to yourself that you were LUCKY in this
interaction because of some chance of fate?
Or would you think that you were SUCCESSFUL because you
understand that YOU control your destiny.
To be honest, the way you view your outcomes with women
is EXTREMELY important for developing your skillset.
When you think of yourself as ‘lucky’ with women, then
you’re basically saying that you have NO control. In
essence, you view the outcomes of ANY
conversation as a chance of fate. If you “scored” then
it’s probably your “lucky day”.
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On the other hand, if you understand the nature of
success, then realize that ANY outcome depends on your
skills and experience. If you “pick up” a woman,
then you understand the EXACT reasons why you were able
to do this. In other words, you understand WHAT attracts
women and how to apply this knowledge.
Now let's move on to the reason for this post. The logic
behind this question is to gauge your mental control
over your abilities with women. If you have
the BELIEF that you can attract women, then it'll
actually happen.
Believe it or not, you DO have control over your
outcomes with women. When you learn to embrace this
philosophy, it’ll become that much easier to
dramatically increase your overall success.
What this means is you should ALWAYS analyze the way you
deal with women. If you experience any success OR
failure, then you should understand what caused
it. And if you encounter any obstacles, you should work
hard to overcome these sticking points and advance your
game to the next level.
