Increase Rapport By Anchoring a Memory To Her
One of the earliest techniques used within the
“seduction community” was implementing Neuro Linguistic
Programming (NLP) to meet women. Many “seduction gurus”
have long understood the importance of using basic
psychological principles to make women more attracted.
To be honest, NLP is a hard concept for many guys to
learn. Often it seems hokey or too mechanical to work in
the real world. But there’s one NLP I regularly use that
can help you increase your overall success with women.
It’s called “Anchoring”.
The idea of anchoring is simple. You take a neutral item
that has NO emotional connection to a woman, and you use
it to trigger a positive emotion within a woman. Through
a shared experience, she’ll always think of YOU when she
looks at this object.
With anchoring you basically create a fun memory that
floods her with positive emotions. Ultimately this will
get her to think about you when you’re not around.
Now this concept may seem a little abstract, so let’s
talk about an example of how anchoring can be used in
your dating life.
Whenever you meet a woman, it’s likely that some popular
music will be playing in the background. To anchor this
memory, start singing along with the song…OFF KEY! As
long as you’ve already demonstrated high status, she’ll
laugh and probably join in.
While I’m normally against doing anything that projects
a low status attitude, this technique can be a funny way
she can remember you. In fact, it’s so powerful, she’ll
think of you WEEKS later when she hears this song. It’s
that powerful!
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Here’s an example of how it works:
Over a year and a half ago, there was that dreadful song
“You’re Beautiful” by James Blunt. One day I was at a
bar talking to a girl, when the song came on. I start
this whole bit about how I thought James Blunt was gay
and they should play this song every time somebody acts
a little “fruity”. Finally, I started singing the song
in this high falsetto voice.
While this might seem a bit weird, it really connected
to this girl. I hung out with her a number of times
after that night. And every time I saw her, she would
start singing “You’re Beautiful” in a high voice
whenever somebody started acting a little gay.
The way I anchored that song created a frame of
reference that was really powerful. To this day, I bet
she still cracks up every time she hears that song.
The point is simple. When you meet a woman, you want to
stand out in a positive and funny manner. And a great
way to do this is to anchor some popular song that
she’ll often hear when you’re not around.
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