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How
to Talk to Women the First Time on the Phone
In the past, I followed
the traditional route for the initial phone call. I
would talk to a girl, recreate attraction/rapport then
set up the 2nd meet (ie: a date). While this method
worked pretty well, I found that I had work extra hard
to build the sexual tension that was created during the
initial approach.
Recently, I decided to change tactics. Instead of using
the 1st phone call to set up a date, I would focus on
creating a FUN conversation. Then if it goes well, I
would go for the date on the follow-up call. Let me
explain the logic behind this tactic…
When a guy calls a girl, he usually spends his time
steering the conversation towards the date request.
Instead of reigniting the attraction, he’s obsessed with
getting her in person. Typically this does more harm
then good. By ONLY concerning yourself with the date,
you end up displaying a needy quality that’s definitely
NOT attractive to a girl.
How to Attract Women Over the Phone...
The first phone conversation should
be about rapport and building attraction. When a woman
first met you, she had some interest. But life has a way
getting in the way. From the time you met her to the
first phone call, she’s had a lot of things to distract
her attention. As a result, you must spend time
rebuilding the interest that she initially had.
So my advice is simple. A day or two after the initial
meet, give this woman a call. When you talk to her, keep
things lighthearted and fun. Tell her a few interesting
anecdotes from the past week and do some light
qualifying.
It doesn’t even have to be a long conversation. All you
need to do is talk for about 10-15 minutes, then find an
excuse to get off the phone. What’s interesting is this
girl will wonder WHY you didn’t ask for a date. Perhaps,
she might even think that you’re NOT interested in her
at all. This is a great way to maintain that tension for
when you call the 2nd time and ask for the date.
The first phone call should make a woman see you as a
real person, not as some guy she randomly met in a
venue. By being fun and playful when you initially call,
you’ll become more of a three-dimensional guy who has an
interesting life. When you DO see her next, you’ll have
more of a connection.
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