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How
to Be More Naturally Attractive to Women
In the past few months,
I’ve been giving a LOT of thought to what makes a guy
naturally attractive to women. Now for the sake of
conversation, when I talk about a naturally attractive
guy, I mean somebody who doesn’t need to practice
attracting women. He just does without a second thought.
So in other words, if you’re reading this blog RIGHT
now, then you’re probably not a natural.
Now if you take away guys who have good looks, money or
youth, you’ll still have guys who are complete naturals
with women. These are the guys who have managed to
unlock the secrets for what women want in men.
Now I’ll be the first to admit. I am not a natural with
women. Before I aspired to improve on my success with
women, I did manage to “Forrest Gump” my way into having
sex with women. But looking back, my success was due to
a few factors:
• Alcohol
• Being in a Comfortable Environment
• Talking to a Friend of a Friend
• Having a Woman Approach Me
Now I’m not going to give you some sob story about how I
was a 40 year old virgin. But, I feel that at one point
in my life, my success with women was VERY limited.
The Secrets to Being More Naturally Attractive to
Women...
So getting back to the point of
this article is there are guys out there who have
natural success with women. Unfortunately I’m not one of
them.
So what makes these guys different?
Well like I said before, I’ve asked myself this question
MANY times.
And one day I decided to find out the answer to this
question. So for the past month, I’ve studied guys who
seem to be naturals with women. (Generally these best
way to tell them is how they don’t use openers, negs or
other routines we’ve grown to love. Simply, they attract
women with a certain type of attitude.)
And what I discovered was simple:
Naturals give off a POSITIVE aura.
Now, I’m not going to go into some hippy new agey rant
now, but guys who are successful with women know the
importance of triggering a woman’s positive emotions. In
other words, naturals are FUN to be around and can
provide an interesting perspective through the way they
view the world.
First off, naturals know how to discuss their dreams,
hopes and secret desires. Whenever given an opportunity,
naturals will talk about life in a positive and exciting
manner. Since MOST people live boring unfulfilled lives,
a natural can provide an exciting change of pace.
Next, naturals are able to avoid the negativity brought
up by other men. If you think about it, most people are
constantly complaining about how much life sucks.
Instead of simply complaining, a natural will express
what he doesn’t like in a round about way that brings it
up, but also finds a way to improve up on it.
Now to illustrate, let’s go over a few statements made
by negative person and by a natural:
Negative:
1) Those girls are so bitchy. I can’t believe they
treated me like that!
2) This is the worst service I’ve ever had. Where the
hell did they hire this waitress?
3) I’m so tired right now. I don’t feel like doing
anything right now
Natural:
1) I didn’t do my best in that set. Next time, I’m going
to display more energy and positive body language
2) Looks like we’re not going to have the greatest
service tonight. But, at least I know the food is going
to be awesome!
3) Okay, gotta find a way to jack up my energy levels.
As you can see, these statements are saying basically
the same things. But it’s HOW they say it that makes all
the differences.
Naturals find a way to be uplifting in every
conversation and interaction. If you learn to display a
more positive outlook on life, you’ll discover that it’s
easy to showcase a positive and natural attitude with
your levels of energy.
Then you can become more of a natural seducer of women.
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