Good Conversation Topics When a Woman Has Nothing To Say
The first
conversation with a woman often causes a problem with
guys. After opening and telling a few stories, you might
reach a point where you run out of things to discuss.
This is what I like to call a “conversation hiccup”.
It’s that period where your mind goes blank and you
can’t think of what to say next. So what should you do
when you reach a “conversation hiccup”?
Well first off, my recommendation is to create a
collection of stories and openers. If you run out of
material, then you can always use this as a failsafe if
you can’t think of anything to say and she’s still not
showing signs of attraction.
With that being said, one technique that I like to do is
to get her talk about her experiences. You’ll find that
the things women say can provide an excellent chance to
reestablish a connection.
Typically asking questions is something that should be
done during rapport. But if you run out of things to
say, then this can a “quick fix” solution to keep things
going after a “conversation hiccup”.
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For
instance, if your mind goes blank, you can ask a couple
of “rapport seeking” questions about her background,
interests, goals, etc. Then as she’s responding, PAY
ATTENTION to the things that she’s telling you. Most of
the time, there will be a number of small details which
you can easily relate back to a story or demonstration
of high value.
To give you an example of what I’m talking about, say
you’re talking to a woman and you’re mind goes blank.
You could ask her about her hobbies. And let’s just say
that she mentions that she loves to travel. You could
take her love for travel and use some story that you’ve
created about a crazy adventure you had during your trip
to Mexico.
Whenever you meet a woman, there is ALWAYS a chance of
running out of things to say. If this ever happens to
you, it’s best to get creative with your questions.
You’ll find that women often have a lot interests that
you can easily relate back to your own experiences. If
you can connect something she’s done to who you are as a
person, you’ll find that it’s easy to get past a
“conversation hiccup”.
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