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First Date Advice- Avoid 'Job Interview' Questions
The first
date can be an extremely stressful experience. You want
to do the “right thing” and make a connection with this
woman. However, you’re wracked with feelings of
nervousness. So, you think coming up with the right kind
of “first date questions” will help ease the tension.
Now, this happens to a lot of guys. They think the first
date is about establishing rapport and finding out more
about a woman. If they ask a rapid-fire series of
questions, she’ll become attracted. Unfortunately, this
method rarely works.
While the first date can be scary, the worst thing you
could do is start asking her a whole bunch of questions.
This can include things about her job, family, where she
lives or any topic that only serves to provide
background information.
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When you spend the date simply
asking questions, you’re doing NOTHING to establish an
emotional connection. Instead you’re displaying the
qualities of a job interview. The LAST thing a woman
wants is to feel like she’s being grilled about her
background.
Women don’t go on first dates to exchange information.
They are there to find out if there is an attraction. So
your goal is to steer the conversation towards topics
which stimulate that emotional connection.
Instead of asking “interview questions”, create a fun
conversation. Talk about stories from your own life.
Tease her a little and playfully banter. Use her own
experiences to hook into stuff that you’ve done.
The first date is about having fun and learning a little
bit about one another. While it’s okay to find out a
little about each other’s life, you don’t want to make
this the focal point of your conversation. Simply focus
on creating that sexual chemistry and you won’t have to
worry so much about asking the right kind of first date
question.
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