Building Rapport By Showing Women Vulnerability
Most of the time, you can’t go from attracting a woman
to seducing her. To bridge this gap, you have to
qualify and build rapport. During this stage,
you’re establishing a firm connection. You’re letting a
woman fill in the gaps in your life and developing a
bond that helps her feel like there’s something special
between the two of you.
There are many things you can do during the rapport
stage. You can tell stories, ask background questions
and reveal interesting quarks about your personality.
The primary focus of this stage is to show the best side
of YOU that a woman will want to see.
Now there’s one big problem I see guys make during in
this stage. They think it’s the time to start bragging
about their life. Seriously, I’ve seen some men talk to
a woman AFTER attraction is built and waste this
opportunity by mentioning their fancy job or the cool
car they drive.
The point of rapport is simple. During this time, you’re
trying to establish a connection. When you know she’s
attracted, you don’t have to worry about impressing her
anymore. Instead, you should focus on providing cool
details about your life.
Here's How to Build Deep Rapport & Attraction With
Women...When I first started out, I had some
major problems with rapport. I could build attraction,
but I found it hard to “turn off the routines” and act
like a normal person. One technique that helped me
develop my game was revealing a VULNERABLE side of my
personality.
Typically, guys within “the community” know all about
acting like an alpha male and demonstrating high
status. But when it comes time to show the “real side”
of their personality, they find it hard to make this
transition. And even worse is the guy who thinks rapport
is the time to get all weepy about how he’s been
rejected by women his whole life.
Rapport is a wonderful time to be a little vulnerable.
BUT, you should never get too in-depth about things that
aren’t naturally attractive to women. In other words,
being vulnerable does NOT mean you should start talking
about your passion for Dungeons and Dragons.
There are some vulnerable qualities that can reveal a
deep side of your personality, without making you seem
weird or geeky. Here are some of the things I recommend:
• Talking about funny mishaps in your life (nothing too
bad)
• Describing a touching event you recently witnessed
(Animal, kids, old people)
• Telling a cute childhood story
• Mentioning a funny sexual story (Nothing too
perverted)
• Telling a secret about you that not many people know
• How some tragic in your life affected you on a
personal level
• Talking about your dreams and what they mean to you
Vulnerability is a great during rapport. Furthermore,
it’s a time when you can relax a little and not focus on
canned material and routines. Being vulnerable shows a
woman that you’re a real person. Not just a dude that
can crack a few jokes and demonstrate a few cool things.
Done correctly, it can bring out the great side of your
personality in a fun and interesting manner.
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