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Secrets to Meeting Women During the Day
When it
comes to women, it’s important to have a variety of
means for meeting them. This means NOT relying on bars &
clubs for your opportunities to approach a girl.
A guy who is successful with women constantly looks for
chances to meet women during ALL hours of the day.
Here’s what I mean. Instead of only talking to women at
bars, you should pay attention to the hidden
opportunities during the day where you can talk to a
girl. What I’ve discovered is it’s actually easier to
meet a girl when you’re out during the daytime.
So let’s talk about “Day Game” and how it can be your
secret weapon for meeting women.
If you’re not familiar with this term, Day Game is using
opportunities outside bar/club environment to meet
girls. This can be when you’re running chores or out
enjoying your hobbies. It’s a lot different because it
avoids the obvious “singles scene” that is avoided by a
lot of women.
From my own experiences, Day Game is a great way to
approach a woman in a low key manner without the stress
of a crowded bar environment. What I’ve discovered is
approaching women during the day can often have GREAT
results.
But before you go out and approach every woman you see,
let’s cover the basics of Day Game. If you want to
succeed with this way to meet women, then I recommend
you take a close look at these six basic rules for
having tight day game:
Rule #1- Look your best
If you want to meet women during the day, you MUST look
your best.
Now if you’re like me, then you probably enjoy “dressing
down” during the day. But if you want to meet women,
then you must be willing to groom yourself and dress for
success.
So this means following basic guidelines for looking
your best. (Ie: Shave, shower, apply cologne and wear
nice clothes)
Rule #2- Talk to everyone
We’ve all been programmed to do chores during the day
and not stop to talk with people. Unfortunately this
attitude will get you nowhere with women.
If you want to improve your day game, then you must get
into the habit of initiating conversations with those
around you. (Even if they’re not women)
The more you practice talking to people, the more
natural it’ll seem when you approach a girl.
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Rule #3- Have an extraction plan
Unlike a club environment, you won’t have the luxury of
“taking things back to your place” for a drink. In other
words, don’t expect to meet a girl and immediately have
sex with her.
However you can still meet a girl and move to another
place to extend the conversation.
What I suggest is simple. When you’re out during the
day, try to think of a place where you can have an
instant “mini-date”. This could be a coffee house,
shopping at a mall, or exercising.
The point is you want to have a place where you can
immediately go and continue the conversation. By
planning out this venue, you’ll make it seem like a
normal part of your daytime activities.
Rule #4- Demonstrate high status
Even when you’re outside the “singles scene”, it’s still
important to demonstrate a high status personality. If
you want to be attractive to a woman, you must show the
alpha male side of your personality.
So if you’re not comfortable in this area, then I
recommend you learn why women are attracted to guys who
can show this side of their personality.
Rule #5- Be an interesting guy
Again, this is another rule which applies in ANY
environment. In order to be attractive to women, you
must show that you’re a genuinely fun guy.
This means IMMEDIATELY showcasing a personality which
she’ll like. For instance, you should:
• Tell fun stories about your life
• Use humor in a funny but teasing manner
• Make interesting comments about her
• Ask her provocative questions.
Rule #6- Establish Physical Contact
The final rule is absolutely important for making a
“connection” to a woman. If you want to be attractive to
woman, you must create sexual chemistry.
And one of the quickest ways to do this is to establish
physical contact.
Within 5 minutes of initiating a conversation, you
should create some sort of kino escalation with your
target woman. This can include giving high-fives,
handshakes, or using humorous body language routines.
Just remember that it’s often easier to meet women
during the day. If you keep your eyes open and know how
to take advantage of hidden opportunities, then you’ll
discover that it’s easy to pick up women.
Simply implement the six rules of day game that I
discussed in this post, and you’ll dramatically increase
your overall chances of meeting different women.
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