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Body Language 'Attraction Triggers' to Send Women
Being
attractive to women sometimes doesn’t depend on what you
say. Instead it can depend on the tone of your body
language.
It’s been said that almost 90% of your communication is
done through non-verbal cues. If you’re not displaying
the right kind of body language, then the best openers
and routines won’t be able to help you!
So the solution is simple. If you want to demonstrate
high status, then you must know the secrets of giving
off positive body language. When you do this, you’ll be
perceived as a confident and dominant guy!
And in this post, I’ll reveal six ways you can show
incredible body language around women.
Eradicate Weak Body Language
 The first step to fixing your body language is to
eliminate all body language traits that are considered
weak.
Women can instantly detect a man who isn’t
confident. So in order to make INSTANT improvement, you
MUST become sensitive to the body language traits you’re
displaying.
For instance, some weak traits can include:
• Having your hands in your pockets
• Fidgeting or showing nervous energy
• Talking to people with your arms folded
• Slumping your head or shoulder down
• Looking uncomfortable in social situations
• Not taking up space
• Walking fast everywhere you go
• Leaning towards women during an initial conversation
What’s interesting is you can make dramatic change to
your body language simply by eliminating these
behaviors.
Work on your stance
The way you stand can have a huge impact on how people
will think of you. Here are a few rules for how you
should stand:
• Keep your chin and head up
• Position your feet and legs at shoulder length apart
• Have your hands at your side or have only ONE hand
holding a drink in front of you (Bar environments)
• Keep your back straight
Take up space
The confident guys in the world are NOT afraid of
others. This is especially true in social situations.
An easy way to eliminate your fear is subtly show your
dominance and leadership by taking up space wherever
your go.
(For more on this click this link to discover the
secrets to confidence and how to dominate any social
situation.)
The good news is can be easily done. Whenever you’re in
a public environment, try to spread out a little.
Instead of folding inwards when you’re surrounded by
other people, position your body so you’re taking up the
most amount of space.
Be relaxed
A confident guy is somebody who can ALWAYS show a
relaxed pose in ANY situation. So if you want to
demonstrate high status, you must display a casual aura
around women.
By displaying a relaxed (yet confident) attitude, you’re
showing that the little things in life don’t phase you.
And here are a few ways to do this:
• Your eyes concentrate on the person in the
conversation
• When talking to women at a bar, you lean back and show
that you’re comfortable
• You never let your eyes dart around a room
• You spread out and look comfortable when sitting down
• You breath through your stomach instead of your chest
By showing a relaxed pose, you demonstrate a LACK of
nervous and inferior body language traits
You move deliberately
Low status guys are jumpy and ready to please women. As
a result, they end up displaying “needy” body language.
Instead of showing that you’re “ready to please” you
want to demonstrate that you move on YOUR own terms.
One of the core traits of a beta male is being a guy who
is ALWAYS ready to do favors for women. If somebody
needs help, the beta male will instantly come running.
Instead of showing this inferior personality trait, you
should move slowly and with a measured attitude. By
taking deliberate actions with every step, you'll force
people to pay attention to your schedule not theirs.
Face away from women
You can tell a LOT to women without opening your mouth.
If you walk up to a woman, invade her personal space and
make your intentions obvious, then you’re demonstrating
the fact that you’re trying to “pick her up”.
Now when you’re first talking to women, you DON’T want
to make your intentions obvious. Instead of invading her
space on the initial approach, you want to put her at
ease. The best way to do this is to avoid directly
facing a woman.
One of the principles of body language is we tend to be
uncomfortable by people who face us directly. So instead
of positioning yourself right in front of her (or a
group), you should approach her to the side. If you can
end up side-by-side or at an angle, you'll reduce her
nervousness and tension. And this will help show that
you’re not investing too much emotionally in the outcome
of the conversation.
Your body language provides your first impression to
women. If you know how to demonstrate high status with
it, then you can easily show an attractive aura. By
applying the six traits I discussed in this post, you’ll
be able to show confident and alluring body language
around women.
Ignite Attraction with Body Language
It's been said that 90% of communication is done through
body language. So it's incredibly important to
make sure you're sending the right kind of messages to
women.
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