4
Steps on How to Get a Girl's Phone Number
Getting a woman’s phone number can be a nerve-wracking
experience. You’ve been talking to her for awhile and
have hopefully built up enough attraction. But when it
comes time to grab her digits, you’ve got to have a
plan.
Well in this article, we’re going to cover a few tips
that ensure the best chance you have of grabbing her
number.
#1- Have a Reason Why
Getting a woman’s number becomes much easier if you give
her a reason why. During your conversation, you should
seed it with different activities and interests that you
like to do. Furthermore, you should learn a little about
her and her interests.
When you ask for her number, you should structure in a
manner where you’re giving her a specific reason for WHY
you’re calling her. Having a pretense for calling her
makes it much easier to call her.
#2- Ask in a high status manner
One of the things I’ve discovered is the WAY you ask for
a number can make or break your chances. Most guys ask
for a woman’s number in a supplicating manner:
“Can I PLEASE have your number?”
Instead of structuring the number request as a request,
you should make it in a way that’s hard to refuse. In
other words, structure the question as a subtle demand,
rather then a question.
So taking these two steps, you can structure the
question like this:
“Hey, there’s that party on Friday I was talking
about. Let me get your number and I’ll call you with
more details”
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#3- The boyfriend problem
Typically during a conversation, you might hear about
her boyfriend. How you handle this situation is up to
you.
When a woman tells you she has a boyfriend, it could
mean a lot of things:
• She has a boyfriend and is very happy
• She has a boyfriend and isn’t happy
• She has a “peripheral” guy in her life who isn’t a
boyfriend
• She’s lying to you
There are many different ways to handle the boyfriend
issue. On one hand, you can use a cocky/funny response
like “I’m not asking for his number” or you could
be direct and ask her “if she’s happy with him”.
Generally I recommend you ignore the response the first
time and then keep working on her. If you ask again and
she talks about him, then you have to make a decision.
You could either decide to be JUST friends with her OR
you can try being a little sneaky and act like you just
want to be friends.
It’s really up to you.
#4- Stalling Tactics
Some women will give you stalling tactics that could
include various things. These can include such things
as:
• “I don’t give my numbers out to guys”
• “How about I get yours instead”
• “I don’t know you well enough to give out my number”
• “I don’t have a phone”
• “How about I just meet you there”
Now the reason I call these stalling tactics is they’re
basically tactics women use to blow off a guy who they
deem not that interesting. Instead of saying, I’m not
interested in you, these are maneuvers designed to not
hurt your feelings.
So my best advice is to make sure you did a good enough
job with attracting her. Sometimes the best defense is a
good offense.
But if you run a good game and she’s still stalling,
then you might need to build more comfort. Some women
are not in the habit of giving their numbers out to new
guys. So you might need to further demonstrate your high
status.
Perhaps you should talk more to her. Or you could tease
her or use cocky/funny.
Just remember that the ONLY way you can talk to a woman
after you’ve met her is to get her number. So if you
follow the 4 steps I’ve outlined in this article, then
you’ll increase your chances of grabbing a woman’s
digits.
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